Written by聽Kaleigh Moore
We鈥檝e all been there. A paper you thought you perfected comes back with a less-than-perfect grade. Or a presentation you give earns you more constructive criticism than rave reviews from your teacher.
Truth, as the saying goes, hurts.
But while negative聽feedback from a聽teacher can be hard to take, it鈥檚 crucial for shaping a student鈥檚 learning experience and聽inspiring academic growth.
That means no matter how tempting it may be to dismiss a bad grade or critical comment as 鈥渘ot fair鈥 or 鈥渘ot true,鈥 it can benefit students to really consider how the feedback can help them develop within their course or program.聽
This is especially true (and challenging) with the rise of聽distance education.聽According to a report from McKinsey & Company, adult students are聽聽While the virtual classroom聽offers more convenience, it also has more room for misunderstanding. When space and time separate a student and teacher, it鈥檚 not always easy to know how to take feedback.聽
So, what鈥檚 the secret to turning a 鈥渂ad鈥 comment from a teacher into a helpful learning opportunity? For starters, keep your emotions out of it. Constructive commentary from an educator can foster聽personal growth聽if you let it. From there, you can leverage one (or some!) of the following five strategies.
One of the fundamental principles for accepting feedback is cultivating a growth mindset, which helps students聽develop resilience and persistence聽in the face of challenges or setbacks in their education.
When a teacher聽 identifies an area to improve, students can consider it an opportunity to refine their abilities instead of a reflection of their worth. Setbacks and mistakes are an inherent part of the learning process, and progress requires persistence and perseverance. This mindset can help you bounce back from setbacks, learn from mistakes and continue making progress.
What does that look like? Consider the following:聽
Ultimately, a growth mindset lets you view feedback as a valuable tool for progress rather than a criticism of your abilities.
When teachers share their assessments and observations, actively listen to their comments and take them to heart. Active listening means not only hearing what鈥檚 being said but also processing the information intentionally so the聽insight can be implemented聽later.聽
To do this, try to avoid becoming defensive or dismissive. Instead, reflect on the feedback and consider its underlying purpose. Analyze the areas your teacher highlighted for improvement and identify specific actions to address them. Reflecting on feedback allows you to maximize your learning potential.
Kimberly M. Underwood, PhD, MBA, University Research chair at 七色视频, says, 鈥淎nger, confusion, defensiveness and hurt are all natural, human reactions to feedback, so it is important to acknowledge your feelings. Once you have done so, reflecting on the feedback, using emotional intelligence, can help you process these emotions by allowing you to think about what you can improve and future actions to better develop in these areas.鈥澛犅
Sometimes, constructive criticism feels less constructive and more like just plain criticism.
When comments from your teacher seem vague, misdirected, overly critical or unfocused, don鈥檛 give up on finding their value. Instead,聽reach out to your teacher聽to gain some level of shared meaning around the feedback. This will help build rapport, effectively focus your efforts and align your understanding with your teacher鈥檚 expectations.
Asking questions also demonstrates your commitment to your education and your desire to improve. And you don鈥檛 have to put yourself on the line to express your motivation. 鈥淚f students feel intimidated by the face-to-face process, asking clear, clarifying questions about feedback within an email is also appropriate,鈥 says Underwood.聽聽
By understanding the teacher鈥檚 expectations and specific areas for growth, students can聽develop targeted action plans. Ask for suggestions on how to address the feedback, request additional resources or seek guidance on specific techniques to enhance your skills. This tailored approach increases your likelihood of making progress in the desired areas.
Feedback often encompasses both positive remarks and areas for improvement. While it鈥檚 important to learn from criticism, make a point to also聽recognize and appreciate your strengths.聽These accomplishments can become your foundation for growth.
Here鈥檚 an example: Getting a paper returned with the feedback 鈥淣eeds more data" may initially feel like your efforts fell short. However, if that鈥檚 the only flaw, it means the framework of your piece is solid and your writing is clear; it just needs more citations to validate claims made.聽
By acknowledging your strengths, you can approach feedback with a balanced perspective.
Feedback is most valuable when it leads to聽tangible changes聽in performance. Once you have absorbed the feedback, develop an action plan to implement the suggested improvements. Break down your action plan into achievable steps and set specific goals. This allows you to clarify any doubts or seek further guidance, ensuring that you鈥檙e on the right track.
Regularly review your progress and seek additional guidance from your teacher if needed. Taking action and following up shows聽respect for the teacher鈥檚 expertise聽and acknowledges their role as a mentor in your educational journey. It also fosters a constructive classroom learning environment and nurtures a relationship built on trust and mutual understanding.
By adopting a growth mindset, actively listening and reflecting, seeking clarification when necessary, focusing on strengths and taking action, you can leverage feedback as a聽powerful tool聽for academic and personal development.
Remember, feedback is not meant to discourage you but to propel you toward excellence. Embrace it as an opportunity to grow and become the best version of yourself.
Students may be online at 七色视频, but they鈥檙e not alone. Here are just a few of the resources available to make the educational journey smoother.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Kaleigh Moore is a full-time freelance writer and consultant specializing in business and software. Her work has appeared in Forbes, Vogue Business, Fast Company, Inc., Entrepreneur and elsewhere. She is also a frequent speaker at conferences and universities and co-hosts a podcast on running a freelance writing business.
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